Holiday Recipe: Chocolate Fondue

by Molly Jo Realy @MollyJoRealy

I came up with this recipe after several trial and errors. Some were too creamy, some too spicy. This one is just right! I love party foods that encourage everyone to gather in the same room and share in the fun. Are you ready for some chocolately goodness? Then read on, and enjoy!

CHOCOLATE FONDUE:

Ingredients:
1 can (14 oz) sweetened, condensed milk
1/2 Cup freshly brewed strong coffee
4 chopped squares semi-sweet baking CHOCOLATE
1-1/2 tsp chili powder

Heat milk, coffee, and chocolate in saucepan until creamy. Add chocolate, stir until completely melted. Add chili powder, mix thoroughly.

Serve warm with assorted fresh fruits, cookies, pretzel sticks, candy canes, cake cubes.

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My Day at Disneyland

by Molly Jo Realy @MollyJoRealy

On Saturday, I took my daughter and her friend, Nathan, to Disneyland. Since we live in Southern California, we’re lucky enough to have annual passes so we try to get there at least once every two months.

This trip I spent some time alone, wandering through the Parks. Instead of riding the bigger roller-coasters, I slowed my pace, enjoying the shops and attractions. On Main Street USA next to the timeless favorite Great Moments with Mr. Lincoln,  I found myself pulled into the Disney Gallery, currently showcasing the art of Mary Blair. It was, in typical Disney fashion, quite magical.

This was a place with no young children calling and pulling their parents along. No loud noises. No big crowds. It was simply a journey into the mind and beauty of one of Walt’s favorite animators, responsible for the themes behind Alice in Wonderland, Peter Pan and Cinderella. She was also the designer/inspiration for that iconic ride, it’s a small world.

Throughout the rest of my day, it was a pleasant surprise to see those little touches throughout the Park. Of course, we had to ride the ride together just after twilight. I’m not sure why we usually do it then, since it’s an indoor ride. For me, I think, it’s because the line is shorter and you have the added thrill of exiting the ride into the lit-up world of Fantasyland. It’s never the same. There are so many details that can be so easily lost in the larger picture. So there we were, Hannah, Nathan, and myself, floating smoothly and singing along to the soundtrack that’s as integral to Disney as Walt himself. I found myself ignoring the big picture in order to selectively view those dolls and settings created by Mary Blair. It was just as exciting when Nathan pointed out the doll for Cinderella, which he’d never noticed before, and when, after all these years, I realized that I’d known the entire soundtrack, including Italian scene lyrics, since I was a child (thanks, Disney long-playing records!).

The other thrill of the day, was finding a Hidden Mickey that I’d been searching for, for about two years. I’m not big on stopping traffic in order to look about. Disneyland works better, for me and others, when someone doesn’t suddenly cease walking and gaze about in foot traffic. With Hannah and Nathan over at Disney’s California Adventure, and no plan for the immediate time, I strolled again down Main Street USA, taking it the sights, sounds, and smells of a century ago. Slowly passing the areas I knew had Hidden Mickeys – those head-and-ears icons that are stylishly designed into the structure of the park. It can be quite a challenge to see them, as there often are people blocking the view. But not this time. I glanced up at a mock-door, and there they were. Two of them, in fact. One at the top, the other at the bottom. To make it even more special, it was on the door of the Casting Agency, with a painted quote by Walt: “It takes People to Make the Dream a Reality”. I immediately snapped a picture with my cell phone and sent it to Megan.

There were other new experiences as well. This is the third time all three of us have gone together, and each time we try to eat at somewhere new. My daughter’s favorite, Rancho del Zocalo Restaurante, was our first trip. She loves Mexican food! Our second trip, we stopped at my favorite, the French Market, sitting on the outside patio reminiscent of jazzy New Orleans and right next to the Haunted Mansion (always our first ride). But this trip, we chose to eat in California Adventure and found ourselves at the Cocina Cucamonga Mexican Grill. Yes, another Mexican grill. But this one had different offerings, and they were just as uniquely delicious as Zocalo.

I rode Pinocchio’s Daring Adventure while Hannah and Nathan enjoyed “ElecTRONica”. Sure. It’s for young kids. But Pinocchio is my favorite Disney movie (he wears red, he’s Italian, it’s full of adventure and color… what’s not to love?!). So I took a ride. It was great. And not once did I feel awkward being alone (well, maybe just a little, but once I saw Jiminy Cricket, that feeling ended!).

They filled their afternoon with Tower of Terror, Space Mountain’s Ghost Galaxy, and the animation studios.

We ended the day as Nathan took us to D Street, a store in Downtown Disney District (which is a great place by itself, even if you don’t go into the Resort Parks). D Street is the place to purchase Disney Vinylmation: cute Mickey icons designed like, well, almost anything. It’s a new collection obsession that I have resisted for several years… until Nathan bought one each for me and Hannah. He collects the “blind box” ones where you can’t tell what you have until you open the box. That’s part of the fun, he says. Purchasing, keeping, and trading (I’d tried pin trading, but could never get into it… I like the few pins I have and don’t want to give them up…).

There’s all kinds of themed sets. I was hooked as soon as Nathan let me open a Star Wars blind box he’d purchased, only to discover it was a “chaser” that was more rare than the regulars, and necessary to the completion of his friend’s collection. Within five seconds, he was on the phone, arranging a trade.

Seeing our intrigue, he went into the store and purchased an “Animation Series 1” for Hannah, and a “Have a Laugh Series 1” for me. I thought it was cute and fun: I didn’t plan to get hooked. But apparently I am, because I’m already saving for my next Day at Disney.

After nearly 12 hours of walking, riding, shopping and seeing, it was time to head home. A short day by usual standards, but an exiting one.

All in all, it was a pretty great adventure: the familiar feeling of Disneyland, combined with the thrill of new experiences.

I can’t wait to go back. Each trip is an adventure.

 

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Recipe: Creamy Chicken with Rice

by Molly Jo Realy @MollyJoRealy

Now that we’re in October and starting the “Busy Season”, this month’s recipes will center on those quick and easy, good for you meals that my family loves. All are five ingredients or less, making them inexpensive as well.

This first recipe came about years ago when my car was in the shop, I had few groceries in the shop, and a hungry daughter (not to mention self). I had to make do with what I had. It turned out so well, it became a favorite.

What I love about this, is that it’s so basic, you can change it up however you like. Add a little soy sauce and chow mien noodles for an Asian flare. Or spoon it over potatoes for something more homey. Add vegetables to the dish, or on the side. However you serve it, it’s sure to be a winner.

INGREDIENTS:

2 Cans – Cream of Chicken soup, undiluted
1 can (12 oz.) chunk chicken
2 cups white rice

Prepare rice on stove. In separate sauce pan, combine soup and chicken and warm on low until heated through. Once rice is cooked, serve sauce over rice.

It’s that easy, and that delicious! Enjoy.

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Lessons Learned (October 4, 2011)

by Molly Jo Realy @MollyJoRealy

1. It’s okay if the Yankees don’t win now and then.

2. The Yankees are, by far, the greatest team in Baseball.

3. Breakfast at Tiffany’s is still a great movie.

4. There are “friends” who use you and manipulate you, friends who need you more than you need them, friends who know what you need, and Friends who take care of you.

5. I try to be a Friend to my friends; but I know I sometimes fail.

6. Income is not the same as a job; and work is not the same as a career.

7. God is bigger than the Boogie Man (Veggie Tales!), and He’s bigger than anything I can think of.

8. The world is incredibly old; there is no original idea left. What was once science fiction is history. What is the future was once someone’s dream. What is now is now. All I have that’s unique is perspective.

9. God will give me the desires of my heart… as long as I delight in Him (Psalm 37:4).

10. I like double-speak for creative writing. I hate it in politicians.

11. Life is not hopeless.

12. Everything is temporary.

13. The colder the weather, the snugglier the cat.

14. October changes people.

15. It’s easier to heal with good foods than bad medicine.

16. Dental work doesn’t always hurt.

17. Complacency is brain-atrophy ~ never a good thing.

18. Biographies can be fun.

19. Forgiveness is important. Guidance is important. Understanding and compassion are important. Love is most important.

20. Flashpoint is still the best show on TV, no matter what network it’s on.

21. Flashpoint peeps are still the best no matter how we connect.

22. Facebook and twitter secretly hate each other.

23. Hockey is not boring, but is sure is hard to follow!

24. Bunco is worth it. No matter what.

25. Christmas is one day. The Christmas spirit should be eternal. Commercialism should be killed.

26. My mom and dad did know more than me when I was a teen. I should have listened more.

27. Someday I’m going to be a famous writer… preferably while I’m young enough to enjoy spoiling my family and securing their futures.

28. God loves me. No matter what. No. Matter. What.

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Apologetic

by Molly Jo Realy @MollyJoRealy

I’m not terribly concerned with being “Politically Correct”. If something is wrong, it’s wrong.

People are entitled to their opinions, and there are more than one way to skin a cat (although, [a], why would you want to, and [b], whoever thought up that phrase?! I mean… seriously!!!!).

My way of making a bed or boiling an egg or handwriting a letter are different from yours. That doesn’t make it wrong. And I respect your ability to fold sheets and heat water. In fact, I may even learn a thing or two by paying attention.

I don’t force my lifestyle on anyone. But I also don’t let people tread on me, or get away with excuses. One of my top pet peeves (again with the animal reference! I see how this is going…!) is people who whine and don’t do anything. Another is people who say one thing and consistently do another.

I’m guilty of both actions. I know I am. But as a habit, I try not to be. As a habit, I try hard to set a good example for my family, be there for my friends, and keep my word. There are times when I’m flakey, irresponsible, negligent, and even rude and spiteful. I pray those times are few and far between.

I don’t know what’s gotten into me lately, but I found myself keeping quiet when it comes to my faith. Maybe I feel like I’m not a public speaker so I don’t have to scream it. Or I’m not a Pastor so I don’t have to preach it, and honestly, who would I preach it to? Maybe I’m afraid of being viewed as being a hypocrite. I’m afraid that if I share too much faith, the world won’t want me. And I do so want the world to want me, to treasure my words in any manner: poetry, blog, stories, screenwriting… heck, I’d be happy writing greeting cards the rest of my life as long as I could get paid enough to support my family and retire nicely, all due to my writing.

All of those are excuses. Reasons to run me into a silent wall, to feel inadequate. To stifle not only the creativity in me, but the Creator working through me. So here it is. At the risk of alienating people and losing “friends” and possibly ruining future options for worldly success…

I believe in God. I pray every day. I try to read my Bible, but I have never read the entire book and I am not good at memorizing most of it. I am a failure, but He is my success. I have made mistakes, I have done wrong, I have hurt people and been hurt through the consequences of my own actions. That doesn’t matter.

Because I also believe in Jesus Christ. I believe He once walked on earth in physical form. I believe He was born of Mary and Joseph. I believe He went into Heaven, and is preparing to unite Heaven and Earth when God’s time is right.

I believe His timing stinks by my clock but is spot on by His. I believe I am forgiven, and therefore am able to forgive others and must forgive myself, or else I pretend He is a liar and I am smarter. Neither of those options are true, or healthy.

I believe in this life I will continue to sin, continue to fail, continue to hurt and be hurt. I believe most of this will be unintentional because I believe in saying/doing/living in God’s love and showing that love to others.

I don’t believe in political correctness when it disagrees with the Goodness in the world. I believe Christ died to save everyone, but I believe not everyone will accept that, and that makes me sad.

I believe it’s my job, my calling, my purpose, to write about God. In anyway I can. To share Him and His grace and mercy and love and unconditional forgiveness and everlasting presence with anyone who will read my words and understand they come from Him through me, and not from me alone. I believe this can be done boldly and directly, but also subtly and indirectly.

I believe I won’t be fully happy if writing means not being faithful to Him. I believe that by being faithful to Him, He will open doors for my writing. I believe I need to not stifle glorifying Him, but I also believe that doesn’t mean I can’t write crime dramas because mine will have a redeeming quality. Not all endings are happy. Not all characters are main. Not all emotions are healthy.

But my God is.

And this is my Apology for keeping Him in a box this long.

It’s time to let Him out, let Him work, and let Him love in ways I can’t. It’s time to live the life I keep thinking about; and step out in faith instead of hiding back in fear. No more shadows of intimidation.

This is me. Loving, and being loved by, God.

He’s pretty awesome, isn’t He?

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“God is Offensive” [written March 4, 2009]

To those who don’t want to follow His lead, His commands,
and go their own way, in their own way.

To those who choose to not show love but be selfish and take it instead,
breaking hearts and hurting people in many different ways.

To those who don’t give to others but make others work for them
without any form of recognition or encouragement.

To those who live for today, without caring for their future
and give no thought to the future of their life, their family, their world.

To those who do as they please,
instead of doing what pleases Him.

God is offensive.
Except to me.

He is the wonderful fragrance of Eternal Life, and I drink Him in, endlessly.
He is the beauty in my picture, and I paint as He guides the brush.
He is the Word already spoken, unspoken. The Only Word that matters.
He is the everything that gives meaning to my nothingness.
And I love Him.

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