F*** Sp****. It’s Not What You Think.

I’ve been trying for days to write an articulate post on the merits and blessings of free speech. I can’t seem to get it quite right.

Because here’s the thing: it’s not.

I live in a country where I have a right to say what I want to say, how I want to say it, where I want to say it… you get the picture.

But that’s not entirely true.

I can’t get into trouble for what I think. But if those thoughts lead to certain actions, it can get a little tricky.

Censorship can be a Useful Word. I shouldn’t go through a Drive-Thru and start preaching my views. I wouldn’t stand up at a wedding ceremony and start singing “All Night Long”. There are certain filters we (should) apply to the content we contribute to the world, as well as what we receive from it.

In mainstream media lately, there’s been a lot of chatter about Free Speech, and how some are using it and others misusing it. Sometimes it’s not talked about, just exampled… and not always eloquently.

People are ridiculed every day for things they say and do. Whether it’s an honest mistake or a media spin, others are quick to jump up and draw attention to things that could otherwise die down on its own.

Others invade privacy like they have a right to someone else’s life. Pursuing someone in any manner just to earn money is never acceptable. Never. (Mojo Opinion: Paparazzo are just legalized stalkers… who shouldn’t be. Don’t you dare tell me it’s what the public wants. Freak. I don’t care what Kate looks like naked!)

There’s a certain video circulating that started under false pretenses and is being blamed for a whole lot of, shall we say, unsavory activities. And the government tried to stop its airing. Here’s the thing: It’s an inaccurate, incendiary video that intentionally hurts people. But should the government really have the “right” to say “stop”?

Our First Amendment states:

“Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.”

Censorship can be also be an Ugly Word. I agree that we are exposed to a great many things we needn’t be. But to try to force a private entity to stop broadcasting goes against the basic principle of Free Speech.

I am not saying it’s okay to broadcast media that is vulgar, smutty, inflammatory… in short, “hate” media. It’s not. In any way. And I believe people should definitely be held accountable for their intentional actions.

But if broadcasting a bad video merits an exception to the right of Free Speech, then what about other “bad” media? Curse words and nudity on television? Pornography on free cable? Explicit t-shirts and billboards and car decals? What about music videos and books and social gatherings? Why can’t we eliminate the things that exemplify true hate and disunity?

We already censor ourselves. Most of us don’t make threats to others, curse in front of Granny, or expose young kids to illicit materials.

But there’s another kind of “speech” making the rounds lately. It’s the “Do As I Do” Speech. Not quite hate-speech. In fact, it’s more of a “If-You-Don’t-See-Things-My-Way-You’re-A-Hater” Hate Speech. When did having a different opinion become so anti-social?

And why does mainstream media jump all over it? I am not an eloquent speaker. I’m a great writer, but when I open my mouth in public (and often in private), I stutter and stumble and things come out that are, to say the least, embarrassing, confusing, and leave others with a “What the heck was that?” experience. Trust me on this; please don’t make me prove it. Because I can. I really, really can.

That doesn’t mean I’m a bad person. Or that I deserve bad things to be said about me, or done to me or my family.

I don’t understand our craving for watching other people make fools of themselves. Why is it so sensationalized when celebrities prove they are (*Gasp!) only human?! People can’t even joke around any more without the fear of insulting someone or getting into legal trouble under the guise of “harassment”… but we certainly get our fill of it all vicariously!

So you see the problem I’ve had writing this? I love Free Speech. I really, truly, honestly do. I’m not for Ugly Censorship. But I sure am in support of Common Sense Supervision.

F*** Sp****. It’s not what you think.

I’m thankful I have the right to make an idiot of myself. I really am. Because without it, there’d be a whole lot of illegal going on at Catford Manor. And for that, I’m thankful others don’t have the right to broadcast my life. Just sayin’…

Censorship and Free Speech. Can’t we all just get along?

And Frankly, My Dear… that’s all she wrote!

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Alienation
Newsworthy (Is There Anyone Out There?)
Dear America…
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I Don’t Care About Kim!
Why I’m Not Political
Why Does Being Politically Correct Mean the Loss of Common Sense?

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Wendy’s Best Day Ever

This one deserves a post all its own.

Wendy was one of two winners for the Scharffen-Berger sponsored Chocolate Heaven post. She took this photo via Instagram and posted it on her Facebook page as well. (Don’t worry, she gave me permission to repost it!)

How cute is she?!

“Maybe one of my favorite days ever! Look what came in the mail !”

And Frankly, My Dear… that’s all she wrote!

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Season Five

FLASHPOINT Season Five premieres tonight. In Canada.

Not here in the U.S. Not until mid-October for us.

If you’ve followed me for any length of time, you know that there are few things better than FLASHPOINT. Starbucks. Cooking. Writing. Family. And God. That about sums me up.

I’ve been trying all day to come with a grabbing post, something to really draw you in and win me the Nobel Prize. And I have many topics in my head.

But all I can get my head around is how lucky Canada is.

And Frankly, My Dear… that’s all she wrote!

You may also enjoy reading:
Hello/Goodbye: How Flashpoint Keeps Hitting the Mark
Do You Know FPTO?
The Long Goodbye: Flashpoint to End After Season Five
The Long Goodbye: What FLASHPOINT Means to Me

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“What’s the Word?” Wednesday [Blog Hop]: September 19, 2012

Are you ready?! In just two short days, it will officially be AUTUMN! Yess! How excited are you? Around here, even with the 90 degree heat we’re still feeling, we’re excited!


Dot has introduced me to the joy, nay, the necessity of the Starbucks’ Pumpkin Creme Frappuccino. A nice cool drink for times such as these. As you can see, she’s also introduced me to the joys of Instagram and Pixlr-o-Matic. (I’ll link those related posts in the Blog Hop portion of this post!)

I’m looking forward to the upcoming week. It’s PREMIERE WEEK! There are a few new shows I want to take a peek at. But mostly we’re extremely excited for the season premiere of NCIS. Now that it doesn’t compete for my attentions with FLASHPOINT, I’m back on the Gibbs Bandwagon. Oh, and a very special shout-out to ION Television for finally announcing Flashpoint Season 5 on their schedule. So we’re a month behind Canada, at least we get to see it!

I’ll be linking up last week’s Stalker post here and with Shell’s Things I Can’t Say. I’m still wracking my brain with how to raise enough funds to afford the airfare so I can accept the trip to Myrtle Beach that I won. I’ve seen some Bloggers put PayPal “Donate” buttons on their sites, but that’s just not my style. Besides, right now, Officer O’Rourke’s family needs donations more than Dot and I do!

Did I mention I have a day job now? I’m so very excited. I’m a Substitute Clerical for the local school district. I’ll be filling absences and vacancies as needed. I did this very same job five years ago and I loved it. I’m hoping to get some nice assignments. I was just hired, and I’ve yet to get to work, but at least I have an employer! And for that, I am very thankful.

With every passing day, I’m seeing that life is more and more of a teeter-totter/up-and-down, and my desire for stability, balance, and positivity relies mostly on me and me alone. I prefer being a colorful leaf swept along in the cool, crisp breeze… and decorating the world as I go along.

And Frankly, My Dear… that’s all she wrote!

And now it’s time for “What’s the Word?” Wednesday!

“What’s the Word?” Wednesdays is a link-up that allows other bloggers and readers to share whatever they want to talk about. Think of it as a virtual coffee date with some great friends. What’s going on in your world? Tell us all about it!

A few things to remember:

  • Each week’s link-up is valid from Wednesday through the following Tuesday. So if you link a post today, you can still come back and link another post tomorrow! In fact, you can link up as many posts as you want.
  • If you add a link, please put the badge on your post as well.
  • Each week has a new link-up. Please make sure you grab the correct Badge Code.
  • Be sure to check out what others are posting, and even leave a few comments.
  • You can now show your “likes” by voting for your favorite links.

So, c’mon. Join the conversation. After all, a great coffee date is one where everyone gets to chat, dontcha think?

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Instagram Day 2

Dot introduced me to the Pixlr-o-Matic application. This, along with Instagram, is making photo taking to much higher levels for me. (Of course, it helps having a great cell phone camera, too!).

In short, Instagram and Pixlr-o-Matic turns this

Into this

How stinkin’ fun is that?

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And Frankly, My Dear… that’s all she wrote!

 

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