Feb 13, 2012 |
Five minutes of typing whatever. Why? Because today I woke up sick. sick.
Stuffy nose. Very sore throat. Headache. Body aches.
In other words, I’m utterly miserable. *Insert sad face sympathy here*
It could be the “bug” that’s going around, or it could be allergies, or it could be both. All I know is I’ve done zero writing today… but my Castleville kingdom has been extremely productive.
So Dot and I have spent the day catching up on weeks’ worth of DVR’d television shows: NCIS, Once Upon a Time, Grey’s Anatomy. At one point I told her to take the remote so I wouldn’t have to. She asked, “Are you going to take a nap?” I profusely shook my head adamantly. The next thing I know it was over 90 minutes later. So, yeah… I took a nap.
I’ve had a Pinterest account for about a month now, but just the last few days I really started paying attention to it. I didn’t get what it was all about; look at pictures and click “like”. What’s the big deal? Until… I started to collect pins. Until I created Boards like “My favorite TV shows”, “My Dream Home”, and “If I Could, I Would…” Until I started realizing how many wonderfully creative ideas my friends have, and now someone else thinks they’re my ideas.
I haven’t read for three days and I’m going crazy. First it was all the great warm weather that allowed me to do yard work and birdwatch, and now it’s because my brain doesn’t want to. I only have 45 pages left to finish a book I borrowed from my mom. She’s a speed reader. She can read two or three books a week if she sets her mind to it. I can’t. Even if the only thing I’m doing is reading, it still takes me too long to read. But I have my reading list for 2012 which allows for one book a week, three books a month. That gives me one week to either catch up or read something unplanned. Since I’ve read 6 of the 7 Narnia stories already, I have room on the reading schedule to read two extras before the end of the month. I’ve decided to finish the Narnia series and this one from my mom.
The next set I’m going to read will be Anne Rice’s Song of the Seraphim series. The plot is connected to the Mission Inn in Riverside, one of my favorite places ever. When I win the lottery, I’m going to stay there often. And write best sellers. And have a suite named after me. There’s only two in the series, which means I have room on the schedule for two more in March.
Dot and I spring-cleaned the Narnia room yesterday. We threw out old stuff, donated stuff we no longer want, and cleaned everything we’re keeping. It didn’t take that long, because I keep that room really clean. It’s my favorite room in the house but I don’t spend much time in it. I should. Maybe I will. Starting tomorrow.
Speaking of tomorrow, who’s doing what for Valentine’s day? I was going to take Dot and my mom to see An Affair to Remember at the local theater. But that’s prob’ly not going to work out so instead we’re planning to just get a nice pizza dinner and watch it at home.
I don’t do much for Valentine’s day. I always forget to decorate for it. Because I’ve just undecorated the Christmas stuff. So I forget that a few weeks later it’s time to get into storage bins again. And I don’t have much to decorate with. Except I think I might at least put out a few candle holders that I like. I should do that soon, yeah? Like, maybe, today? Now? Hmmm….
I wish all my fellow bloggers knew how much they mean to me. Just reading other blogs really inspire me. There’s Andrea, Jenn, Ann, another Andrea, Megan, Dani, Brittany, Chelsea… I always feel really bad when I don’t have time to comment on every single post. Because I know the effort I put into each and every post, so I know they do the same. And they deserve to be appreciated.
And now my time’s up.
And Frankly, My Dear… that’s all she wrote!
Feb 12, 2012 |

Trust your gut and get out of your own way.
“Impossible” just means it hasn’t happened yet.
I believe. Therefore, I achieve.
You may not know what lies ahead. That’s okay. He does.
And Frankly, My Dear… that’s all she wrote!
Feb 11, 2012 |
You remember the random post from last November when a bird wouldn’t let my daughter back into the house? I finally found out what kind of bird that was!
It’s called a Dark-Eyed Junco. And I found it while spending a couple hours online looking at bird photos and information.
You’ll recall my dismay joy at the fox my Mom saw in her yard? And a few days later a new hawk started hanging around? Let me be clear: my mother does not live on a farm. Our homes are exactly one mile from each other. We have the same floor plan. We have similar decorating styles (ok, not so much, but we do share decor now and then).
So I keep harassing asking her how she’s so lucky to have all this wildlife and I’m not. There’s one big reason: three lots in her neighborhood are still undeveloped. My entire street has a house on each plot.
It makes sense that God’s creatures would enjoy dirt burrows, trees, even tumbleweeds. There’s not a lot of stealth options in my chain-linked yard. So the fox, the hawks, the quail, and yes, even the bobcat are more welcome at her house than mine.
Until today.
Big smile on my face!
Today was the first really nice-weather day we’ve had all year. (I know, I know… it’s only mid-February. But seriously, folks. This is the desert!) After our morning coffee together, I left Mom’s house and spent an hour in my own yard before I even went inside. I weeded. I hula-hoed. I picked up rocks and old boards that were in place long before I moved in. I unburied the fence edge. I outlined the new flower garden site. I tested sprinklers. I ran sprinklers.
Our neighborhood birds know when they’re getting fed. They didn’t care that I was working on beautifying my yard. I was invading their space. And they were hungry. And they kept telling me so.
So when all the work was done, I fed the birds. [Note to self: stop singing the Mary Poppins song every time you write “Feed The Birds”.]
Mixed seed in the right feeder. Sunflower seeds in the middle. And peanuts in the left. Scrub Jays love peanuts. Cactus Wrens, as it turns out, do too. I sat on my loveseat in front of the large picture window and took in the show.
Two large Crows courted from the high wires. They flew together, landed together, and I watched as they pecked each other’s beak constantly. It wasn’t a battle; it almost appeared as if they were kissing, or perhaps one was just showing the other how to feed the kids a good meal.
The Cactus Wren nest in the Joshua Tree stumps to the right of the feeder tree. Once the sparrows and red finches spilled enough seed on the ground, the Wrens scurried out and took claim. It was comical to see them wait until the Scrub Jays flew away with one or two peanuts in their mouths. During that absence, the Cactus Wrens found remnants under the tree and quickly retreated back to the Joshua Tree.
The Scrub Jays returned often, squawking their ownership of the peanuts. They left quite a few in the feeder, but at first they worked very enthusiastically to hide them for later treasures. What they didn’t count on, was hiding them in the Cactus Wrens’ territory. Bite! the Scrub Jays flew with their snack. Scurry! they landed at the base of the Joshua Tree. Slip! they tried to bury it under the spiked leaves. Then they’d disappear with another peanut to the backyard. The Cactus Wrens are smart. They learned the pattern. And as soon as the Jays flew to the back, the Wrens kidnapped the peanuts and put them in a different place around the tree base, or even in the winter’s dead growth of the lilac shrubs. Time and again, the Jays returned only to squawk loudly in a failed attempt to reclaim their stores. The Cactus Wrens never flinched. So the Jays began to find other hiding spots.
During this dance, I became aware of two more Crows coming into the trees. Into the trees! That’s fairly unheard of. These large black birds generally hop on the ground or sit on power lines. I’ve never seen one in a tree, especially when that tree is being populated by little birds like people to a New York Deli at lunch hour.
The Crows flew back and forth. After a third round above the yard, a new bird entered. I cannot explain to you what it felt like to see this incredibly huge bird, to hear its wings, to know it was previously unknown to my yard. I saw it land in the corner trees.
All I could think about was calling my mom and telling her I had a new bird. But she’d ask me what it was. And I didn’t have a clue.
So I did the only thing I could: I put on my fuzzy slippers and took my cell phone out into the yard. I wasn’t in a rush, but I also wasn’t stealthy. I wasn’t sure what I’d see, and I was excited-nervous-wowed.
About ten feet past the Joshua Tree stands a Fruitless Mulberry in the corner of my yard. On the neighbor’s adjoining corner is a very large, very tall Pine tree. I walked past the spikey Joshua Tree (and almost impaled myself by not paying attention!). I walked under the bare branches of the Mulberry. And I peered into the Pine branches.
There it was. This most magnificent, incredibly large bird: slate blue-grey on the back, creamy but orange-y on the belly. And the most piercing, dramatic incredibly red eyes. I tried to take a picture but it flew to another tree farther away. Just then I realized its partner was in the second tree. It just looked at me with those eyes. I was so appreciative of the bright sun that prevented this from turning into a horror movie. They were those kinds of deep red eyes.
My mom’s phone was busy so I quickly drove over to look at her bird reference books. There were several options and none seemed to fit perfectly. So I came home and that’s when I spent hours online looking at bird photos and websites.
AllAboutBirds.org is a great website but I’ve learned nothing beats typing in keywords into Google and searching photos. Once I see a close call, I verify.
My beautiful blue-yellow red-eyed monster is a simple Cooper’s Hawk. But there was nothing simple when I stood under it’s 15-inch majesty, or when it stared at me with its horror-movie eyes. I have never been that close to a bird that big. I was enthralled.
As I write this late Friday night, I can still hear the Scrub Jays claiming more peanuts for their morning fiesta.
And I can’t wait for them all to come back. Maybe they’ll even pose for a picture.
And Frankly, My Dear… that’s all she wrote!
Feb 8, 2012 |
NEW BUSINESS > otherwise unemployed
no place to go < NO TRAFFIC
DRIVING TO SCHOOL > adventures in parenting
parenting issues < BEING A MOM
HAPPY HOUSEHOLD > just getting by
missing muse < WRITING IT OUT
FREELANCING > wrong opportunities
time on my hands < TIME WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS
FRIENDS AND COFFEE > something to do
lots to do < GETTING THINGS DONE
SETTING MY OWN SCHEDULE > working in sweats
dropping resumes < EARNING INCOME
TAKING CARE OF OBLIGATIONS > frugal fun
learning to save < EARNING A GOOD NAME
WORKING HARD TO GET NOTICED > waiting in the shadows
stepping out < HOLDING MY BREATH
LAUGHING IN SUNSHINE > pushing off the ground
dirt in my shoes < FLYING HIGH
balance <> BALANCE
Balance.
[Today’s post was inspired during a conversation with my good friend, Janice. Life can be quite the teeter totter at times. It helps when you have people who know the fine art of balancing.]
And Frankly, My Dear… that’s all she wrote!