Social Media Saturday: The Day the Internet Broke

by Molly Jo Realy @MollyJoRealy

Earlier this week, the unthinkable happened. I couldn’t get into Facebook. Or Instagram. Not terribly heart-attack inducing, until my cohort Irene messaged me “Please tell me your Facebook account wasn’t deleted!” So of course, I did the only thing I could: I panicked.

I Googled “Facebook broke” and whoa-hoh. The ensuing disaster happened before my internet eyes. There in digital black and white was confirmation that both sites were down, and had been for a few hours, worldwide.

Now, my peeps are often scaring warning preparing me for the apocalyptic EMP that will someday take the world wide web, and my life, down with it. Can I just say this little glimpse into the future did not–I repeat, did not–make the warm and fuzzies show up.

The worst was when no one else could access their accounts, either. Or maybe that was the best. I mean, at least I wasn’t alone in my aloneness. Know what I mean?

Thoughts in rapid-fire succession came to me:

  • How will I contact my besties?
  • How can I blog?
  • How long will this last?
  • Do I have any other survival skills?
  • Why can’t I feel my fingertips?
  • When will the room stop spinning?
  • How long before my dead body is found, crumpled in a heap at the foot of my MacBook Pro?

Don’t laugh.

I made good use of my five minutes of rediscovery. I made a meme. Only thing was, I couldn’t post it until the event was over.

Frankly, My Dear . . . : The Day the Internet Broke

Frankly, My Dear . . . : The Day the Internet Broke

Sure. It’s funny now. But not during. It was a hit to my social media funny bone.

So let’s not do it again, web.

[Note to self: Remember the digital isn’t the only world out there. I know, I’m laughing too. But they say it’s true.]

Tell me, what do you do when your social media doesn’t work?

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With a working connection and building connections,
Happy posting!
~Molly Jo

And Frankly, My Dear . . . : That’s all she wrote!

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Five Things Friday: My Favorite Ghost Stories

by Molly Jo Realy @MollyJoRealy

Frankly, My Dear . . . : Five Things Friday

Frankly, My Dear . . . : Five Things Friday

It’s late. It’s always late when I blog. And for the last few nights, Catford Manor’s hallway has been the feline focal point of things unseen.

You cat lovers, y’all know what I’m talking about. The furfamily pricks their ears, squints, and scurries into the shadows to meow at . . . nothing. At least I hope it’s nothing. Every night, I hope it’s nothing. When we first moved in so many years ago, the cabinet doors and drawers liked to open on their own about once a week. Until I let who–or what–ever it was, such antics were not acceptable.

The ravens love my rooftop and a few times throughout the year, they like to peck at the chimney cap and make more noise than I’m comfortable with. It’s all very Hitchcockian.

And very timely for today’s Five Things Friday: My favorite ghost stories.

Frankly, My Dear . . . : My Favorite Ghost Stories

So, I grew up in a small town in the midwest. The kind where kids rode bikes to the mini mart to buy sodas and candy bars before we took ourselves to the lake during summer, or the golf course after school. Mind you, we didn’t play golf. But the area was wooded, and lent itself to spooks and Bigfoot hunts. Growing up where and when I did was a great catalyst for my imagination. What follows are stories I have heard–or experienced–that have stayed with me.

  1. The Winchester House. Are y’all familiar with Winchester rifles? Sarah Winchester was the widow and heiress to rifle inventor, William Wirt Winchester. She built the mansion after his death. It was said to have been haunted by spirits of those killed by his lever-action repeating rifle. The house, now a tourist trap and historical landmark in San Jose, was built with odd rooms, doors that lead to nowhere, and windows inside that looked into other rooms. Sarah filled the home with representations of spiritualism, the number 13, and spider webs, all in attempts to appease the victim spirits of her husband’s weaponry.
    Frankly, My Dear . . . The Winchester Mystery House

    Frankly, My Dear . . . The Winchester Mystery House

     

  2. The Queen Mary. This is one of my favorite, well, haunts, if you’ll pardon the expression. Balmy summer nights under neon port lights, walking the wood decks, there’s a definite feeling of more than meets the eye. A guided tour and literature detail past and present encounters. There are many rumors of ghosts and otherworldly events on the docked ship. [Note to self: Don’t stay in Room A128.] This old photo is out of focus, but captures the sentiment perfectly.
    Frankly, My Dear . . . : Queen Mary Prediction

    Frankly, My Dear . . . : Queen Mary Prediction

     

  3. Disneyland’s Haunted Mansion. I’ve heard many a rumor, but have yet to experience anything myself, except for the occasional unwarranted chill up my spine. It’s been said since the Haunted Mansion was built in 1969, there have been many unexplained paranormal activities. A pilot who died in a nearby crash haunts the dark hallways. Employees never work alone. Sounds, strange movements, and shadows all infiltrate the structure in a way not inspired or designed by Disney.
    Frankly, My Dear . . . : Ghost Carriage at Disneyland's Haunted Mansion

    Frankly, My Dear . . . : Ghost Carriage at Disneyland’s Haunted Mansion

     

  4. The Grey Man of Pawley’s Island. I first read about him when I was nine. It was in a book, The Haunting of America, that I was so enamored with, I borrowed it from the library over and over and over. In fact, just a few years ago, I found an out-of-print copy and it still gives me the chills. The Grey Man appears on the island to warn residents of impending hurricanes. But the most chilling aspect is that he has no face. He wears a grey suit, a grey hat, and his skin is the grey of storm clouds. His faceless appearance in the sign to residents to leave immediately, or hunker down.
    Frankly, My Dear . . . : The Grey Man of Pawley's Island

    Frankly, My Dear . . . : The Grey Man of Pawley’s Island

     

  5. Stephen J. Cannell. Now, y’all may not believe this. Sometimes I wonder if it ever really happened. But this is my own personal story, so I know it to be true. In 2007, I sent SJC an email asking for writing advice. He turned that inquiry, and his response, into a short video for his website. Over the course of the following three years, we had a quasi-mentor relationship online. Facebook, Twitter, a few emails here and there. He was the first professional writer to acknowledge me, and to call me “Molly Jo”, not just “Molly”. And then in 2010 we met at a book signing. He died a few months later and it hit me hard. Oh, we weren’t close friends, but he was important to my writing. He inspired and encouraged me. And one morning about two weeks after his death, in the middle of October, I woke up to an email from Stephen J Cannell. It was the same email he’d sent me over three years earlier, the first response to my inquiry. And that same email, with the same video query encouraging me to write every day, kept showing up in my email inbox every day for a week. Until I started writing again. #truestory

    Frankly, My Dear . . .: Meeting Stephen J Cannell

    Frankly, My Dear . . .: Meeting Stephen J Cannell

So there you have it. My five favorite ghost stories.

Curious: What are yours?

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With a bright flashlight and a glow-in-the-dark notebook,
Haunted writing!
~Molly Jo

And Frankly, My Dear . . . That’s all she wrote!

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Photoblogger William Kendall: The Haunted Chateau Laurier

by William Kendall @WilliamKendall1

Ghost stories abound throughout the world, from isolated homes in the countryside to small towns and even large cities.

Especially when October comes around and our thoughts turn to ghosts, goblins, and jack-o-lanterns. Such is the case in Ottawa, which has a wealth of ghost stories in some unexpected places, and even a tour company, the Haunted Walk, with several tailored tours of the city’s core and spooky stories that go along with it. One of those locales just happens to be our most prestigious hotel.

Chateau Laurier in winter

Chateau Laurier in winter

The Chateau Laurier is right downtown, on the east bank of the Rideau Canal, across from Parliament Hill. It forms part of what’s called Confederation Square, and dates back a century now. It is luxurious, welcoming, and has hosted the great and the good over a hundred plus years. Politicians, dignitaries, and celebrities have spent time here. The great portrait photographer Yousuf Karsh ran his studios out of the Chateau for the latter part of his career. Photographs of the hotel’s grand history can be found within. It is a landmark and a national historic site, and rightfully so.

Charles Melville Hays

Charles Melville Hays

And it has its ghosts.

The Chateau has the look of a castle, built in the French Gothic Chateau style. It was part of the era of railroad luxury hotels, commissioned by the president of the Grand Trunk Railway in tandem with his Union Station across the street. Charles Melville Hays named it in honour of the prime minister who helped get it built, and dreamed of it as a crown jewel in his railway hotels. It’s certainly maintained that crown jewel status, which Hays would approve of. In a way, he never left.

Chateau Laurier and Ceremonial Guards

Chateau Laurier and Ceremonial Guards

The hotel was to open in late April, 1912. Hays and his family had gone to Europe so that the railroad baron could secure further investment and purchase antique furnishings for his new hotel, soon to be opened. Returning from overseas, Hays booked passage on a ship you might have heard of.

Titanic.

Long story short, an iceberg decided to teach the “unsinkable” ship a lesson in respect, the ship went down with 1500 souls aboard, and Hays, his son-in-law, and his secretary were among them. It was said that he noted of the fierce competition between ocean crossing cruise lines: “The time will come soon when this trend will be checked by some appalling disaster.”

His body was recovered, and he was buried in Montreal. The opening of the hotel was delayed two months out of respect for the dead. And yet his spirit seems to have lingered, occasionally seen or felt in the hotel, the last major project he’d worked on in life. A spectre matching his description is sometimes seen, as is the ghost of a child. Unseen presences are known to move doors, furniture, or objects. Sounds are heard in rooms where no one should be.

In 2012, the centennial of the official opening was held, with the hotel open for business, cake marking the occasion, and people in period clothing of the time strolling around its corridors and promenades. One of the images of that day that sticks with me (and which I wish I would have photographed) was a young woman in Edwardian era formal wear, descending a staircase… and checking her messages on her mobile. I wonder what Hays would have thought of that.

Chateau Laurier interior

Chateau Laurier interior

The Chateau is an enchanting sight in the city, and a favourite photo subject for me. It remains the place to be seen today, with countless souls having had enjoyed its hospitality down through a century. Some of those souls appear to be staying there on a permanent basis… and in doing so have added to the mystique and character of the place.

What are some of your favorite haunts?

TWEET THIS: Photoblogger William Kendall: The Haunted Chateau Laurier @RealMojo68 @WilliamKendall1 #haunted

And Frankly, My Dear . . . That’s all she wrote!

William Kendall

William Kendall

 

William Kendall is a photoblogger who finds the unique perspective in everyday life. You can follow him on his writing blog, Speak Of The Devil, his photoblog Ottawa Daily Posts, and Twitter @WilliamKendall1.

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Streaming vs. Cable vs. Live TV

by Molly Jo Realy @MollyJoRealy

I’ve been having a discussion, or rather, several mini-discussions, on Facebook this week.

I’m a huge fan of live TV, especially from October through September. I mean, you have your World Series, your holiday fare, the series season enders, the summer afternoon movies, and the series premieres. And then the whole thing just starts all over again.

But I’m not a huge fan of the big bill that comes with my TV viewing each month. Forget about the FCC and the never-ending fight to pay for cable a la carte. I’ve been researching things like Roku. Amazon Prime. Firestick. Hulu. Y’all know I already have Netflix. These are streaming apps–they’re not exactly channels, they’re more like a video library. You say, “Hey, I wanna watch my NCIS,” and they say, “Certainly. Which episode?”

Frankly, My Dear . . . : Streaming vs. Cable vs. Live TV

Frankly, My Dear . . . : Streaming vs. Cable vs. Live TV

Now, the thing is, these streaming venues cost. And not one has everything. So I have to figure what I want and sort of piece together the apps that work best for me.

I don’t want to give up Pandora through the TV. I have a pretty awesome sounding TV, so the smart phone just doesn’t do it when I’m at home.

I heard Hulu has current episodes of almost everything, except my fave CBS shows. So I can subscribe to CBS All Access. The Roku has most of these apps built into it, but so do smart TVs. Having the apps available doesn’t mean I have the accounts to watch. Did I mention I have to figure out which I want to subscribe to?

Here’s where you come in. As I said, I’ve been having these conversations on Facebook with my peeps, but I’d really like to know your opinion.

Do you stream your entertainment? How do you watch live sports? What’s your approximate cost per month? Should I get a Roku or a smart TV or both? Should I stick with cable? How many apps is too many, and in the end, are these mini-subscriptions just adding up to what I’m already paying on monthly one cable bill?

What are the benefits and drawbacks of streaming TV vs. Cable/DVR/on-demand vs. just live TV without any gizmos?

Help This Girl out and let me know what you think?

Thanks.

TWEET THIS: How do you do #TV? @RealMojo68 #streaming or #cable

With too many remotes and an overload of choices,
Happy viewing!
~Molly Jo

And Frankly, My Dear . . . That’s all she wrote!

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Recipe: The Best Pasta Sauce. Period.

by Molly Jo Realy @MollyJoRealy

I know. You’re thinking, what the heck? A recipe for sauce? That’s just . . . lame. Or something. I mean, all you do is open a jar. Am I right? That’s all there is to it.

But it’s not. Trust me.

A few blog posts ago [translate: years], I shared my recipes for infused olive oil and polenta. But I never shared the awesome sauce that goes with it.

Y’all ready for this?

Frankly, My Dear . . . : The Best Pasta Sauce. Period.

Frankly, My Dear . . . : The Best Pasta Sauce. Period.

Now, this is a post for pasta sauce, but let’s recap the food it covers.

  • Pasta: Boil the water and a dash or two of olive oil. Add the pasta. Boil 8-10 minutes or until al dente. That means until it doesn’t stick to each other, but it also isn’t limp like a piece of cereal left in milk for more than a few minutes.
  • Polenta: So, first, ya wanna take your infused olive oil and heat it in a covered skillet until it’s “ouch” ready. That means for goodness sake, be careful when you lift the lid and don’t touch it! Slice the polenta into coins and fry for 6-7 minutes until golden and crispy. The longer the fry, the better the crunch. Capice?

Okay. Got your base food ready? Let’s make some sauce!

The Best Pasta Sauce. Period.

The Best Pasta Sauce. Period.

Ingredients

  • 1 large jar pasta sauce. I like Newman's Own Sockarooni as a good starter.
  • 1 small can diced tomatoes. If seasoned, use garlic, oregano or other Italian flavors.
  • 1/2 clove garlic, pressed like a good Italian should do.
  • 1/2 green bell pepper, diced
  • 1/2 red bell pepper, diced
  • 1/2 medium onion, you guessed it- diced
  • 1/2 cup mushrooms. No, not diced. Sliced or pieces. Okay. I guess that means diced.
  • 1/2 cup red wine.

Instructions

  1. Combine all ingredients.
  2. Heat thoroughly. [Note: the flavors are better if you let sit in a slow cooker for about two hours, stirring occasionally.]
  3. Serve on pasta or polenta.
  4. Or just eat with a large spoon.
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That’s it. Easy-peasy. And the clean up? Fuggedaboutit. [That means hakuna matata, no worries.]

How do you serve your sauce?

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With a big fork and lot of garlic,
Happy eating!
~Molly Jo

And Frankly, My Dear . . . That’s all she wrote!

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